The chap proposes, selects the engagement ring, and then, aside from picking the best man and his own suit, that was always considered to be his job done. This places immense pressure on the bride-to-be, which does not make for a good wedding day!

So, if you have recently popped the question and have a date set, now is the time to step up and help your future spouse out with the wedding planning. Below are some ideas on how to do that.

The Venue

All wedding venues should be discussed between both you and your partner, but if either of you are struggling to draw up a guest list, or aren’t sure where to say “I do,” now is the time to take to the internet and look at wedding venues that tick all the boxes for your wedding day.

It is advisable to draw up a list of venues to share with your partner, taking into account shared needs, tastes, guest list size, and budget. Yes, it may not feel important, but the wedding venue is where your wedding photos will be taken and where those precious memories will be made.

The Budget

Another way in which you could help out with the wedding planning is by looking at the budget for each area. This is more important if there is a pooled budget, coming from you, your spouse, family, and friends.

Decide how much can be spent on food, the venue, the dress (be careful with that one!), and even the DJ. This will help to set clear boundaries and will make an easy starting point for the later stages of wedding planning.

Guest Accommodation

Are you getting married near where you live, or are you having the wedding a bit further away? Where are your guests going to stay?

Again, this is an area that is rarely considered right until the end and by selecting motels, hotels, or other venues for your guests to stay in, you are removing that weight from your partner and helping plan a stress-free wedding day.

If you are aiming to have your guests stay in motels, hotels, or bed and breakfasts, be sure to enquire about their budgets and draw up a list of spots near to the wedding venue.

Be Honest!

OK, so for many grooms, this should be standard, but it is easy to push your wants to one side when it comes to the wants and needs of your partner. Of course, this is your wedding too, and you need to voice your own opinions in order for it to also be your special day.

So, speak up! Be honest about what you want for your wedding day and then work with your partner to make your combined vision a reality. There are fewer things worse than feeling like a stranger at your own wedding.

Remember, your life together will be all about shared responsibility so, in planning for your wedding day, dividing the tasks will make the process easier and help you and your partner to feel closer.